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Assalamualaikum=)

Saya ada baca satu artikel yang sangat menarik kat doktorbudak.com. A very nice one. You can read the full article here.

Right there written in the article, that is exactly how my 2nd child, Mohd Haris (anak yang soleh) is behaving!! Sekarang umur 3 tahun. Abang yang sulung Haikal, 5 tahun. Adik dia Hadi 1 tahun.

"According to Adler the second or middle child often have sense of not belonging, they fight to receive attention from parents and they feel insecure easily. The middle child or second child lacks drive and actually looks for direction from the first child. They tend to go with the flow of things. Adler also describes them as a natural mediator and is usually the peacemaker in the family. They would have many friends due to their easygoing nature and is loyal to their friends. The child may have even temper or take it or leave attitude. Adler believes that the middle child feels squeezed out of a position of privilege and significance. As such they are compelled internally to find peace within the family."

Exactly..lebih kesian lagi Haris, umur dia around 2 tahun, sudah dapat lagi adik pula. So you see, attention kami kat dia boleh kata memang kurang. And I can see he is very very independent. Kalau rasa mengantuk nak tidur, dia masuk je dalam bilik tidur sorang-sorang. Kadang-kadang rasa sedih pula, masuk-masuk bilik dia dah tertidur. Lagi-lagi kalau dia minta buatkan susu tapi saya tak sempat buatkan dia dah tidur. I can feel a pang in my heart T__T

Anyway as a mother I am trying my very best to love them equally. Now that Hadi pun dah besar and not such a baby anymore, saya cuba spend masa dan perhatian untuk Haris dan Haikal juga=) I may not be the best mother, but I am all u've got. So bear with me yer kiddos hehe.

Anyway semalam saya sembang dengan Haris dalam bilik air..

Me: Kenapa Haris asik poo jer?

Haris: Yelah sebab Haris makan nasik banyak sangat kat sekolah. Lepas tu makan banyak sangat dekat rumah.

Me: Kenapa Haris makan banyak?

Haris: Yelah sebab Haris nak jadi besar macam mama dengan abah.

Me: Oo yeke..Haris nak jadi besar nak buat apa?

Haris: Nak kejelah.

Me: Haris nak kerja kat mana?

Haris: erm..nak kerja kat KL! (amboi hang Haris, bukan main nak keje kat KL yer nak glamour saja)

Me: Oooooo Haris nak kerja nak beli apa?

Haris: Beli kete Mater..

Me: Haaa beli Mater? Haris nak p mana bawak kete Mater?

Haris: P jalan-jalan lah.

Me: Oooo mama boleh ikut tak?

Haris: Boleh!

Me: Kita nak jalan-jalan p mana?

Haris: P jalan-jalan tengok Mater.....

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Sabaq je lah. Hahahaha..

Kereta idaman Haris -______-;
Maklumlah bila main role play, abang Haikal je yang dapat jadi hero Mcqueen. Haris jadilah watak sampingan je..but he's very loyal and even proud of it hehe..way to go Haris! Buruk tak semestinya tak bagus kan=)